Saturday, November 28, 2009

All I want for Christmas is...

1. UA and NAU frames for my college diplomas
2. Recipe book
3. Window tinting for my car
4. Dyson Animal vacuum
5. Flip digital camcorder
6. Sewing basket
7. Britney Spears's The Singles Collection: Ultimate Fan Box
8. Case for my digital camera
9. Anything related to cats
10. Anything related to teaching
11. Anything related to ballet
12. Anything related to American history, especially race and class
13. Anything related to foster care/ adoption

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

In the moment

In church two weeks ago, we talked about being mindful. One of the most important times to be mindful is while you're eating. I did this tonight. I ate in complete silence. (Of course, silence is relative.) I focused on my breath as I chewed my food, and I came to the realization that I have a bad habit of not breathing while I chew my food. It's sooo important to breathe while you chew your food. This action forces you to be focused on your food--its taste, smell, texture, etc. When you practice mindful eating, you become satiated at a faster rate, and you eat less. We're also encouraged to think deeply about things while we eat, rather than focus our attention on TV, or something like that.

There will be more to come on this topic :)

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Pumpkins

The Scary Truth About Pumpkins

Pumpkins can be grown with pesticides that are toxins for the human nervous system. Fortunately, it's not hard to find organically grown or pesticide-free jack-o-lanterns near you. Find out more at nature.org/october

Monday, October 5, 2009

Townhome For Rent/Sale

Does anyone wanna rent or buy our townhome in Tucson?!?

Saturday, October 3, 2009

One Month, Four Girls

September was a busy month for several couples we know! Three couples of friends and one couple who's family each delivered a baby girl each week of the month. First, Ari and Genna had Teagon Kaye. Next, Jeff and Laura had Isabella Milan. After that, Jim and Monica had Peyton Mackenzie. Then, Chris and Lauren had Sophia Rose. Congratulations guys!!! And, by the way, I'm an aunt for the third time :) I LOVE my nieces - Imara, Samantha, and Peyton! Now, the question is...who's going to have the first boy in this group?!?

Thursday, October 1, 2009

Where Did 'We' Go?

The following article was sent to me by my grandma, and I felt the urge to share it with you. Read it. It'll make you think!

The New York Times
September 30, 2009
OP-ED COLUMNIST
Where Did ‘We’ Go?
By THOMAS L. FRIEDMAN

I hate to write about this, but I have actually been to this play before and it is really disturbing.
I was in Israel interviewing Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin just before he was assassinated in 1995. We had a beer in his office. He needed one. I remember the ugly mood in Israel then — a mood in which extreme right-wing settlers and politicians were doing all they could to delegitimize Rabin, who was committed to trading land for peace as part of the Oslo accords. They questioned his authority. They accused him of treason. They created pictures depicting him as a Nazi SS officer, and they shouted death threats at rallies. His political opponents winked at it all.
And in so doing they created a poisonous political environment that was interpreted by one right-wing Jewish nationalist as a license to kill Rabin — he must have heard, “God will be on your side” — and so he did.
Others have already remarked on this analogy, but I want to add my voice because the parallels to Israel then and America today turn my stomach: I have no problem with any of the substantive criticism of President Obama from the right or left. But something very dangerous is happening. Criticism from the far right has begun tipping over into delegitimation and creating the same kind of climate here that existed in Israel on the eve of the Rabin assassination.
What kind of madness is it that someone would create a poll on Facebook asking respondents, “Should Obama be killed?” The choices were: “No, Maybe, Yes, and Yes if he cuts my health care.” The Secret Service is now investigating. I hope they put the jerk in jail and throw away the key because this is exactly what was being done to Rabin.
Even if you are not worried that someone might draw from these vitriolic attacks a license to try to hurt the president, you have to be worried about what is happening to American politics more broadly.
Our leaders, even the president, can no longer utter the word “we” with a straight face. There is no more “we” in American politics at a time when “we” have these huge problems — the deficit, the recession, health care, climate change and wars in Iraq and Afghanistan — that “we” can only manage, let alone fix, if there is a collective “we” at work.
Sometimes I wonder whether George H.W. Bush, president “41,” will be remembered as our last “legitimate” president. The right impeached Bill Clinton and hounded him from Day 1 with the bogus Whitewater “scandal.” George W. Bush was elected under a cloud because of the Florida voting mess, and his critics on the left never let him forget it.
And Mr. Obama is now having his legitimacy attacked by a concerted campaign from the right fringe. They are using everything from smears that he is a closet “socialist” to calling him a “liar” in the middle of a joint session of Congress to fabricating doubts about his birth in America and whether he is even a citizen. And these attacks are not just coming from the fringe. Now they come from Lou Dobbs on CNN and from members of the House of Representatives.
Again, hack away at the man’s policies and even his character all you want. I know politics is a tough business. But if we destroy the legitimacy of another president to lead or to pull the country together for what most Americans want most right now — nation-building at home — we are in serious trouble. We can’t go 24 years without a legitimate president — not without being swamped by the problems that we will end up postponing because we can’t address them rationally.
The American political system was, as the saying goes, “designed by geniuses so it could be run by idiots.” But a cocktail of political and technological trends have converged in the last decade that are making it possible for the idiots of all political stripes to overwhelm and paralyze the genius of our system.
Those factors are: the wild excess of money in politics; the gerrymandering of political districts, making them permanently Republican or Democratic and erasing the political middle; a 24/7 cable news cycle that makes all politics a daily battle of tactics that overwhelm strategic thinking; and a blogosphere that at its best enriches our debates, adding new checks on the establishment, and at its worst coarsens our debates to a whole new level, giving a new power to anonymous slanderers to send lies around the world. Finally, on top of it all, we now have a permanent presidential campaign that encourages all partisanship, all the time among our leading politicians.
I would argue that together these changes add up to a difference of degree that is a difference in kind — a different kind of American political scene that makes me wonder whether we can seriously discuss serious issues any longer and make decisions on the basis of the national interest.
We can’t change this overnight, but what we can change, and must change, is people crossing the line between criticizing the president and tacitly encouraging the unthinkable and the unforgivable.

Saturday, September 26, 2009

a dork

Ok, now I feel like a dork. I think my previous post is incorrect. Chris and I were just talking about this this morning, but I think we're wrong. 10 years wouldv'e been in 2008. So, CORRECTION: 11 years ago *wink*wink*

Yesterday

Yesterday, September 25, 2009, marked 10 years since our first date. Wow! You know what they say...Time flies when you're having FUN!

On September 25, 1999, when we were 16 years old, Chris picked me up from work. At that time, I was working at Chuck E. Cheese's. We took his white Nissan truck to Jim's, his oldest brother's place to hang out at a party. I don't remember a whole lot from our first date, because I was really nervous, and I wanted to make a good impression. (Well, obviously I did!) I think my curfew was 10 p.m. back then, so we didn't have a lot of time together, but, looking back on it, I think I did fall in love with Chris on this date. From that point on, he was the only person I constantly wanted to spend time with. And that hasn't changed.

Thursday, September 24, 2009

The Interrogation

I'm currently on hold with SOS CHILD, a child abuse reporting hotline. (OK, I just hung up with him.) Anyway, you'd think they'd be thankful for teachers who call in to report that their student is being neglected. No, instead, I felt like I was under an interrogation. He's like asking a million questions, and when I don't know the answers, he second-guesses me. It was awful! Geez! He determined that my student's case should be reviewed, and he wants me to contact the parents to see if she has underlying medical condition. So, who knows if that call was worth my time or not. Some people have quite the nerve!

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Meeting Jose

Chris and I had our last foster/adoption training today, and we got to meet a foster dad named Jose. He was awesome and totally inspiring. He admitted that he and his wife went into foster care thinking it'd be a piece of cake, because they both work with children. But, it wasn't. Jose described how challenging foster care can be. I wasn't surprised to hear that. He also told us about the rewards of helping children. He currently has an 11 year old boy in addition to his three biological children, so he's really busy! Jose mentioned that the kids get sad when the foster son has family visits, because they miss him at the dinner table. This point clearly emphasizes the fact that foster kids become your kids, eventhough you don't know what the future has in store for them. I guess I just wish that more people could find it in their heart to foster children.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Wilda says...

I'm going to be a star, not only at Cesar Chavez, but in the Gadsden Elementary School District too!

Wilda Storm (yes, that's her real name) is the author of our writing curriculum, Write Up A Storm! She observed me today, and had nothing but good stuff to say about me. Wow! I felt sooo SPECIAL :) So, now I'm wondering what kinda star I'll be...

Side notes:

Tomorrow, Chris and I have our home inspection for the foster/adoption certification. Cross your fingers that we pass!

I'm currently involved with a dance tribute/contest and a fashion show in San Luis.

My CCES Dance Team is going to start practicing on Monday. Can you think of any catchy names that have to do with dance, or spirit, or pom line and a roadrunner, because that's our mascot?!? Let me know!

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

In case you missed it

Prepared Remarks of President Barack Obama
Back to School Event

Arlington, Virginia
September 8, 2009

Hello everyone – how’s everybody doing today? I’m here with students at Wakefield High School in Arlington, Virginia. And we’ve got students tuning in from all across America, kindergarten through twelfth grade. I’m glad you all could join us today.

I know that for many of you, today is the first day of school. And for those of you in kindergarten, or starting middle or high school, it’s your first day in a new school, so it’s understandable if you’re a little nervous. I imagine there are some seniors out there who are feeling pretty good right now, with just one more year to go. And no matter what grade you’re in, some of you are probably wishing it were still summer, and you could’ve stayed in bed just a little longer this morning.

I know that feeling. When I was young, my family lived in Indonesia for a few years, and my mother didn’t have the money to send me where all the American kids went to school. So she decided to teach me extra lessons herself, Monday through Friday – at 4:30 in the morning.

Now I wasn’t too happy about getting up that early. A lot of times, I’d fall asleep right there at the kitchen table. But whenever I’d complain, my mother would just give me one of those looks and say, "This is no picnic for me either, buster."

So I know some of you are still adjusting to being back at school. But I’m here today because I have something important to discuss with you. I’m here because I want to talk with you about your education and what’s expected of all of you in this new school year.

Now I’ve given a lot of speeches about education. And I’ve talked a lot about responsibility.

I’ve talked about your teachers’ responsibility for inspiring you, and pushing you to learn.

I’ve talked about your parents’ responsibility for making sure you stay on track, and get your homework done, and don’t spend every waking hour in front of the TV or with that Xbox.

I’ve talked a lot about your government’s responsibility for setting high standards, supporting teachers and principals, and turning around schools that aren’t working where students aren’t getting the opportunities they deserve.

But at the end of the day, we can have the most dedicated teachers, the most supportive parents, and the best schools in the world – and none of it will matter unless all of you fulfill your responsibilities. Unless you show up to those schools; pay attention to those teachers; listen to your parents, grandparents and other adults; and put in the hard work it takes to succeed.

And that’s what I want to focus on today: the responsibility each of you has for your education. I want to start with the responsibility you have to yourself.

Every single one of you has something you’re good at. Every single one of you has something to offer. And you have a responsibility to yourself to discover what that is. That’s the opportunity an education can provide.

Maybe you could be a good writer – maybe even good enough to write a book or articles in a newspaper – but you might not know it until you write a paper for your English class. Maybe you could be an innovator or an inventor – maybe even good enough to come up with the next iPhone or a new medicine or vaccine – but you might not know it until you do a project for your science class. Maybe you could be a mayor or a Senator or a Supreme Court Justice, but you might not know that until you join student government or the debate team.

And no matter what you want to do with your life – I guarantee that you’ll need an education to do it. You want to be a doctor, or a teacher, or a police officer? You want to be a nurse or an architect, a lawyer or a member of our military? You’re going to need a good education for every single one of those careers. You can’t drop out of school and just drop into a good job. You’ve got to work for it and train for it and learn for it.

And this isn’t just important for your own life and your own future. What you make of your education will decide nothing less than the future of this country. What you’re learning in school today will determine whether we as a nation can meet our greatest challenges in the future.

You’ll need the knowledge and problem-solving skills you learn in science and math to cure diseases like cancer and AIDS, and to develop new energy technologies and protect our environment. You’ll need the insights and critical thinking skills you gain in history and social studies to fight poverty and homelessness, crime and discrimination, and make our nation more fair and more free. You’ll need the creativity and ingenuity you develop in all your classes to build new companies that will create new jobs and boost our economy.

We need every single one of you to develop your talents, skills and intellect so you can help solve our most difficult problems. If you don’t do that – if you quit on school – you’re not just quitting on yourself, you’re quitting on your country.

Now I know it’s not always easy to do well in school. I know a lot of you have challenges in your lives right now that can make it hard to focus on your schoolwork.

I get it. I know what that’s like. My father left my family when I was two years old, and I was raised by a single mother who struggled at times to pay the bills and wasn’t always able to give us things the other kids had. There were times when I missed having a father in my life. There were times when I was lonely and felt like I didn’t fit in.

So I wasn’t always as focused as I should have been. I did some things I’m not proud of, and got in more trouble than I should have. And my life could have easily taken a turn for the worse.

But I was fortunate. I got a lot of second chances and had the opportunity to go to college, and law school, and follow my dreams. My wife, our First Lady Michelle Obama, has a similar story. Neither of her parents had gone to college, and they didn’t have much. But they worked hard, and she worked hard, so that she could go to the best schools in this country.

Some of you might not have those advantages. Maybe you don’t have adults in your life who give you the support that you need. Maybe someone in your family has lost their job, and there’s not enough money to go around. Maybe you live in a neighborhood where you don’t feel safe, or have friends who are pressuring you to do things you know aren’t right.

But at the end of the day, the circumstances of your life – what you look like, where you come from, how much money you have, what you’ve got going on at home – that’s no excuse for neglecting your homework or having a bad attitude. That’s no excuse for talking back to your teacher, or cutting class, or dropping out of school. That’s no excuse for not trying.

Where you are right now doesn’t have to determine where you’ll end up. No one’s written your destiny for you. Here in America, you write your own destiny. You make your own future.

That’s what young people like you are doing every day, all across America.

Young people like Jazmin Perez, from Roma, Texas. Jazmin didn’t speak English when she first started school. Hardly anyone in her hometown went to college, and neither of her parents had gone either. But she worked hard, earned good grades, got a scholarship to Brown University, and is now in graduate school, studying public health, on her way to being Dr. Jazmin Perez.

I’m thinking about Andoni Schultz, from Los Altos, California, who’s fought brain cancer since he was three. He’s endured all sorts of treatments and surgeries, one of which affected his memory, so it took him much longer – hundreds of extra hours – to do his schoolwork. But he never fell behind, and he’s headed to college this fall.

And then there’s Shantell Steve, from my hometown of Chicago, Illinois. Even when bouncing from foster home to foster home in the toughest neighborhoods, she managed to get a job at a local health center; start a program to keep young people out of gangs; and she’s on track to graduate high school with honors and go on to college.

Jazmin, Andoni and Shantell aren’t any different from any of you. They faced challenges in their lives just like you do. But they refused to give up. They chose to take responsibility for their education and set goals for themselves. And I expect all of you to do the same.

That’s why today, I’m calling on each of you to set your own goals for your education – and to do everything you can to meet them. Your goal can be something as simple as doing all your homework, paying attention in class, or spending time each day reading a book. Maybe you’ll decide to get involved in an extracurricular activity, or volunteer in your community. Maybe you’ll decide to stand up for kids who are being teased or bullied because of who they are or how they look, because you believe, like I do, that all kids deserve a safe environment to study and learn. Maybe you’ll decide to take better care of yourself so you can be more ready to learn. And along those lines, I hope you’ll all wash your hands a lot, and stay home from school when you don’t feel well, so we can keep people from getting the flu this fall and winter.

Whatever you resolve to do, I want you to commit to it. I want you to really work at it.

I know that sometimes, you get the sense from TV that you can be rich and successful without any hard work -- that your ticket to success is through rapping or basketball or being a reality TV star, when chances are, you’re not going to be any of those things.

But the truth is, being successful is hard. You won’t love every subject you study. You won’t click with every teacher. Not every homework assignment will seem completely relevant to your life right this minute. And you won’t necessarily succeed at everything the first time you try.

That’s OK. Some of the most successful people in the world are the ones who’ve had the most failures. JK Rowling’s first Harry Potter book was rejected twelve times before it was finally published. Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team, and he lost hundreds of games and missed thousands of shots during his career. But he once said, "I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."

These people succeeded because they understand that you can’t let your failures define you – you have to let them teach you. You have to let them show you what to do differently next time. If you get in trouble, that doesn’t mean you’re a troublemaker, it means you need to try harder to behave. If you get a bad grade, that doesn’t mean you’re stupid, it just means you need to spend more time studying.

No one’s born being good at things, you become good at things through hard work. You’re not a varsity athlete the first time you play a new sport. You don’t hit every note the first time you sing a song. You’ve got to practice. It’s the same with your schoolwork. You might have to do a math problem a few times before you get it right, or read something a few times before you understand it, or do a few drafts of a paper before it’s good enough to hand in.

Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it. I do that every day. Asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of strength. It shows you have the courage to admit when you don’t know something, and to learn something new. So find an adult you trust – a parent, grandparent or teacher; a coach or counselor – and ask them to help you stay on track to meet your goals.

And even when you’re struggling, even when you’re discouraged, and you feel like other people have given up on you – don’t ever give up on yourself. Because when you give up on yourself, you give up on your country.

The story of America isn’t about people who quit when things got tough. It’s about people who kept going, who tried harder, who loved their country too much to do anything less than their best.

It’s the story of students who sat where you sit 250 years ago, and went on to wage a revolution and found this nation. Students who sat where you sit 75 years ago who overcame a Depression and won a world war; who fought for civil rights and put a man on the moon. Students who sat where you sit 20 years ago who founded Google, Twitter and Facebook and changed the way we communicate with each other.

So today, I want to ask you, what’s your contribution going to be? What problems are you going to solve? What discoveries will you make? What will a president who comes here in twenty or fifty or one hundred years say about what all of you did for this country?

Your families, your teachers, and I are doing everything we can to make sure you have the education you need to answer these questions. I’m working hard to fix up your classrooms and get you the books, equipment and computers you need to learn. But you’ve got to do your part too. So I expect you to get serious this year. I expect you to put your best effort into everything you do. I expect great things from each of you. So don’t let us down – don’t let your family or your country or yourself down. Make us all proud. I know you can do it.

Thank you, God bless you, and God bless America.

Monday, September 7, 2009

What's Left

Chris and I have made quite a bit of headway in our foster/adoption paperwork, but we still have to:

complete the life-safety inspection report

copy our vehicle registration

I have to get CPR/First Aid certified

we still have to complete some of the agency's paperwork too

So, that's not bad, considering we started this process 8 weeks ago. I hoping that since we're both feeling better, we'll be able to complete everything before Saturday's training class. I'm actually going to miss the trainings, though. The people have become part of our extended family, and now I'm not going to know what to do with my Saturday mornings!

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Dr. Peter Vincent Pakulis

Celebrating a life well lived...

Dr. Peter Vincent Pakulis
June 12, 1960 - August 28, 2009

"As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." Joshua 24:15

A fund has been set up for Pati, Colin, Julia, and Alissa Pakulis.

All donations can be made payable to:
The Springs Church
6135 W. Detroit Street
Chandler, AZ 85226

Please write Pakulis on the memo line. 100% of the funds will go directly to the Pakulis family.

Friday, August 28, 2009

8/28/08

My Uncle Pete died from cancer today. I don't understand death, especially when it's premature. Pete left behind his wife, my Aunt Pati and three children - Colin, Julia, and Alissa. They're the reason his death is so devastating. They still have so much to do in their lives, and he won't be there to experience it with them. That breaks my heart. Pete was such a good husband and father and uncle, and yet a senseless disease claimed his life. I just don't get that. Anyway, I'm going to make more of an effort to spend time with my cousins :)

Friday, August 21, 2009

What I'm Thankful For

As I was driving to work this morning, a song came on the radio (I can't remember what song it was right now), and it reminded me that I need to focus the majority of my attention on the things I'm thankful for. So, I'm gonna list them here.

1. Lovey
2. Mom
3. Olivia
4. Daddy, John, and Scooby
5. My extended family members
6. My babies: Jackson and Zoe
7. People who are like family to me
8. My friends
9. My co-workers
10. My home
11. My car
12. My career
13. My talents: dance, playing the flute, being creative
14. My computer
15. My health
16. Ameripsych
17. Barry
18. Water toys
19. Nancy
20. Memories

That's a pretty loaded list, so I think I'll stop there. I'm a lucky girl :)

Monday, July 20, 2009

potentially

Today is potentially the last day of my summer vacation. One week ago, I applied to the Gadsden Elementary School District, and on Tuesday I scheduled an interview for Wednesday. Due to some certification issues, I had to drive to Tucson and back on Thursday. Friday was the day I found out that I probably have the job, and TODAY is the day I'll know for sure. But, I don't know anything yet, so only time will tell.

If I am hired by the GESD, I'll receive a lot of perks, including:
an increase in pay
a job that I'm highly qualified for
a smaller campus
a 30-dollar-an-hour after school program

There are only a few downsides to the job, which are:
a 30 minute drive
Spanish speaking

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

3 Good Things

Yesterday, 3 good things happened to me! In case you haven't noticed, good things (and bad things) always come in threes.

First, I found out that Chris and I CAN start the adoption training classes this Saturday, despite the fact that Chris is going to miss at least four classes. Yea!

Then, I found out that one of my high school students, who's a senior, can be on the AWC Dance Team as long as she takes one AWC credit. That really made my day, because I had just had two dancers quit. Whew! What a relief, because I'm back to having 10 girls on the team.

Third, I got an interview at Cesar Chavez Elementary School, which went amazingly well by the way.

I'm on a roll:)

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Things don't always go my way

But, things always seem to work out for me. I'm currently looking for a new job, because my former school found a "highly qualified" dance teacher to replace me with. So, that sucks! Anyway, I submitted my application for the Gadsen school district yesterday afternoon, and I'm hoping to hear back from them this week. It'll be more money, but in return I'll have to drive about 45 min. each way. Oh well! I can handle it, because that's what I did in Tucson. If this job doesn't pan out, I applied for an administrative assistant position, which is a glorified secretary, at NAU-Yuma. And, if both of those jobs bomb, I'm not sure what I'll do because being a housewife isn't an option.

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Dreams

Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.

Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow.

-Langston Hughes

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

On Poverty

A few weeks ago, I attended a two-day workshop on poverty. The workshop focused on key points from Ruby Payne's "A Framework for Understanding Poverty". I think these ideas are important for everyone to understand, especially people who have regular contact with people living in poverty. Here's what I learned:

The causes of poverty are: 1) behaviors of the individual; 2) human and social capital in the community; 3) exploitation; and, 4) political and economic structures.

Poverty is relative.

Poverty occurs in all races. (Rural Poverty vs. Urban Poverty)

Generational and situational poverty are different.

Research on poverty is based on patterns, and all patterns have exceptions.

Schools operate from middle class norms and values.

Focus of people living in poverty: survival, relationships, and entertainment.
Focus of people living in the middle class: work, achievement, and material security.
Focus of people living in the wealthy class: political, financial, and social connections.

Individuals bring with them the hidden rules of the class in which they were raised.

There are cultural differences in poverty.

To move from poverty to the middle class, one must give up (for a period of time) their relationships for achievement.

Two things that help one move out of poverty are: education and relationships.

YOU can build relationships through HIS: high expectations, insistence that they will succeed, and support.

Four reasons one leaves poverty: too painful to stay, vision or goal, key relationship, special talent or skill.

Resources include: financial, emotional, mental, spiritual, physical, support systems, relationships/role models, knowledge of hidden rules.

What can YOU do?
Analyze the person's resources, and make interventions based on the resources that are present.
Understand that failure is often related to missing resources, and identify ways to provide for missing resources.
Remind the person that you're not trying to change them, but you're trying to give them options.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Summer

So far, Chris and I have enjoyed going to Senator Wash and San Diego this summer. Today, Chris left for San Antonio, TX to attend an athletic training convention. I will be without him for about a week and a half, but I'll stay busy cleaning our house and traveling to Las Vegas, NV for a dance camp. I'm leaving on Friday with the San Luis dance team. It will be partial work and partial fun, because I'm going to be a chaperone. It just so happens that a few of my coworkers will be in Vegas that weekend too! So, maybe I'll have the chance to hang out with them as well. Chris and I are also planning to go to Lake Powell for a few days this summer. Flagstaff might be in our future too, depending on what our friends, Jeff & Laura, want to do. Other than that, I'm going to be taking as many ballet classes as I possibly can to get/stay in shape.

Thursday, May 28, 2009

All Done

I'm all done teaching for the 08-09 school year, and I couldn't be more thrilled! I do still have one more rehearsal and dance to perform, but I feel like a huge weight has been lifted. I'm looking forward to the two vacations I have planned--San Diego and Las Vegas--and a whole lot of relaxing! I want to get our house really clean and organized, so that when our family starts to grow everything will be ready. Chris and I are excited to have biological and adopted children, and we can't wait to start the process! I was contacted today about the orientation schedule for foster/adoptive parents, so we should start that sometime this summer. I'm also hoping that we conceive at some point this summer. Now, that I'm done teaching and taking classes, I should be able to focus on the important things in life: faith, family, friends, fitness, and fun :) Here's to living the life you love and loving the life you live--your BEST life (thanks to Bob and Oprah for those quotes)!!!

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Child Witches, Christianity, and The Congo

A couple of nights ago I caught an episode of "Nightline" that horrified me. There is a new movement taking place in the DRC, Africa involving Christians and witches. It sounds ironic, but it isn't. There are "pastors" charging people $50 to cleanse their children of demons. You should know that the average person living in the Congo only makes $100 per year. When a child is "cleansed", they are bitten, have hot wax poured on their bellies, are burned, and the list goes on. The children who can't be saved, are abandoned by their parents. Young girls are especially susceptible to abandonment. I'm not sure why. They are frequently raped while living on the streets, and they have many children who they struggle to feed. Oh, and there was one boy who was so malnourished, because his mother beleived that starvation would remove his demons. Two little boys that were interviewed were so traumatized that they didn't respond when questioned, and they stared off into another worold. So, while these "Christians" are getting rich, tons of children are being abused, tortured, and abandoned on the streets of the DRC. I don't know what to do about this, but it's obvious that something needs to be done to save these kids.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Traveling

Whenever I get on the road, I keep my eyes open for my favorite road sign of all time: Blowing Dust Area. When you're in the desert, everywhere is a blowing dust area. Duh!

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Olivia made it! And, she made it one year early! She is almost officially a high school graduate. The funniest thing about this for me is thinking back to my own graduation, and how Olivia was just a rolly-polly eight year old kid :) And now, she's a beautiful young woman who has a lot of dreams for her future. I want every one of them to come true!

When Olivia was born, I wanted her to be a mini version of me. I resented the fact that she wasn't anything like me at times. I did ballet, she played basketball. I LOVED every moment of high school, and she didn't really care for it. I knew that I wanted to be a teacher since 1st grade, Olivia changes her mind about everything all of the time. We're so different, and yet I admire everything that she is. She is really smart. She dreams big! She takes chances, some of which I wish she wouldn't. There isn't anything safe or predictable about Olivia, and I wish I had a little bit more of that quality in myself. Oh, and my favorite quality about Olivia is that she isn't caught up in other people's opoinions of her. She dresses how she wants to, wears her hair how she wants to with no regard for the in-crowd, etc. I was much too caught up in all of that junk.

All in all, my little sister is awesome.

Monday, May 18, 2009

The Soloist

Yesterday afternoon I went to see "The Soloist" with two friends. They didn't really get it. I did. I grew up with my mom telling me stories about the mentally ill patients she worked with at Kino hospital when she was a psychiatric nurse. These were the same stories reflected in the movie. It probably helped that I watched the TV special about Ayers and Lopez prior to watching the movie. Mental illness scares me, because of the control that it takes away from its vicitims. All in all, I wish people would have more compassion for the mentally ill, the homeless, and the gifted. They may not be people that can be easily related to, but they're people.

See "The Soloist" or read it, or both!

Monday, May 11, 2009

this past weekend

Chris and I had a busy and fun-filled weekend. On Friday night, we attended GRHS's presentation of "Cinderella: The Musical", which was surprisingly good. It didn't quite live up to YHS's version of "Hello, Dolly", but it was entertaining nevertheless. Following the show, we went to Laurel's house for poker. We were too late to join in, but we chatted with people, and it was fun to get out. On Saturday morning, we drove to Tucson for JJ and Jennifer's wedding. Before going to the wedding, we went to Verizon to get new phones. Chris got a BlackBerry Storm, and I got a Nokia something or other. They're great! Anyhow, JJ is our friend from high school, and Jennifer and him have been dating for four years. She has to sons, Christopher and Cayden, from a previous relationship. The wedding was held at a beautiful church on the far northwest side of town. It was beautiful! Chris and I watched the sunset at one point. Then, we all ate dinner at one of my favorite Mexican restaurants, La Parilla Suiza, and I got the same thing I always get--bistek tacos. It was so good! SNL was hosted by Justin Timberlake that night, so I tried to stay awake, but I couldn't do it. However, I did see the sequel to "Dick in a Box", which was absolutely hilarious! On Sunday, which was Mom's Day and Chris's 27th b-day, we went to the Blue Willow (another favorite) with my mom and Olivia. It was great. Then, we headed home. Once we got home, we went to Red Lobster for dinner to celebrate Chris's b-day with the gift cards from my mom. I had the most amazing tilapia and shrimp dinner. Wowzers! We rented "Rendition", which was good but way over my head. At the end, I was totally confused. So, all in all, it was a great weekend :)

Sunday, May 3, 2009

5/5

Possibly the dumbest question I've ever asked relates to Cinco de Mayo. Drum roll please...

When is Cinco de Mayo?

Yeah, I actually asked Chris and Ari that question a few years ago in an Albertson's in Tucson. And, it took me a second to realize why they thought that was hilarious! Oh my.

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

baby news

It feels like everyone but me is pregnant, which I know is a common feeling among women who want to be pregnant. I've been ready to be a mother for two years now, but Chris wasn't ready to be a father. Well, he's been ready since Christmas, but I'm not pregnant yet. And, I'm feeling pretty frustrated. I'm making an effort to pray and to focus my energy on the following Marianne Williamson quote:

God is bigger than your problem--no matter what its form, size or shape. Pray for a miracle; forces will conspire to heal and make whole.

So, here's the baby news:

Genna and Ari are having a girl.

Heather's having a boy, or at least she's 99% sure.

Jim and Monica are having a girl.

Jeff and Laura think they're having a girl, but won't know for sure until the 18th.

Sarah's having a boy.

I'm not sure what Mike and Harmony are having, and I don't know what Rory and Teresa are having.

A GRHS student is having a boy. Pretty scary for a 16-year-old!

Michelle and Dustin are having a boy.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Correction

For the longest time I believed that Nelson Mandela had given the most incredible inaugural speech of all time. I was wrong. Apparently, I'm not the only person who has made this mistake. Here's the deal:

Our Deepest Fear
by Marianne Williamson
from A Return To Love: Reflections on the Principles of A Course in Miracles

(See note below about Nelson Mandela)

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

This inspiring quote by Marianne Williamson is from her book, A Return To Love: Reflections on the Principles of A Course in Miracles, Harper Collins, 1992. From Chapter 7, Section 3 (Pg. 190-191).

Note About Nelson Mandela
This quote is often found on the Internet incorrectly credited to Nelson Mandela from his Inauguration Speech, 1994, especially the last sentence of that quote, “As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

For reference, here are links to two official African government sites with Nelson Mandela's 1994 Inauguration Speech:

Mandela: Inauguration Address - Cape Town, 09 May 1994, via South Africa Government Online Official Web site.
Statement Of The President Of The African National Congress Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela At His Inauguration As President Of The Democratic Republic Of South Africa Union Buildings - Pretoria, 10 May 1994, via ANC's (African National Congress) Official Web site.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Not enough

Dr. Lapan finally got back to me about not being accepted into NAU's C & I doctoral program. Apparently, the committee found that I had "very, very limited professional education related experiences". What that means is that I haven't published any of my writing and/or presented any of my work. It kinda made me regret not having published my senior capstone paper-- "Gendered Education in Training"--when I had the chance to do so in 2004. But, you know what they say...hindsight's 20/20!

You're How Old?

I've been meaning to post a new blog about my b-day weekend for quite some time.

So, I'm now 27. It feels old even though I know it's really not. My Uncle John and Aunt Zandra came to visit for the weekend. They live in Bethesda, MD.

Here's a list of what we did:

Ate at Chretin's
Toured AWC and GRHS
I substituted at YBA and they watched me teach
Ate Shepard's Pie

Walked the West Wetlands Park (saw a coyote for the first time in Yuma)
Ate homemade breakfast
Checked out Yuma Crossing and Territorial Prison
Historic Yuma (AKA downtown)
Read wonderful stories out of the New Yorker
Attended Ballet Yuma's "Current and Classic" (Chris and Zandra both fell asleep)

Woke up to flowers from Chris :)
B-day brunch and Carla Renee's
Colorado King Sunset Dinner Cruise

Petroglyph Site outside of Gila Bend
Ate at "world famous" Little Italy

Farewell!

It was a great weekend :) The hardest part was going back to work on Tuesday.

Friday, April 17, 2009

Another dream

This is an email I received from facebook today:

Deserea wrote on your Wall:

"So this is kinda crazy, but I have random dreams about people every now and then, and last night I had a dream that I was working at the Women's Hospital here in Baton Rouge as a Nurse and you and Chris had just had a baby girl! She had your big pretty eyes and looked like a little tiny Rachel! How crazy is that!"

Monday, April 13, 2009

a dream

I had a student tell me today that she had a dream that I was pregnant and had a baby girl. Someday, I hope that dream turns into a reality for Chris and me.

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Easter thoughts

My co-worker and friend, Luz, gave me an Easter card today. Here's what it said:

I hope the first two verses remind you of the love of God demonstrated a Good Friday hundreds of years ago and the hope He revealed three days later.

The last two verses can remind us of how simple it is to show God our love.

"This is real love. It is not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins." -The Apostle John, 1 John 4:10

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." - Jeremiah 29:11

"If you love Me, keep My commandments." - Jesus, John 14:15

"Love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments." -Jesus, Mark 22:37-40

Happy Easter!!!

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Denied!

When Chris and I returned from Prescott late Sunday evening, one of the first things we did was go through the mail. There was a letter from NAU's College of Education. This news excited me, because I had yet to hear from the C & I doctoral department regarding my admission to their program. I was denied!

I was more shcoked than anything about this, because I thought I had so much going for me. After all, I had a 4.0 during my master's career, and I graduated with academic distinction. I AM diversity; everything about me is reflective of that fact. Duh! I did average on most of the GRE, and better than average on the math portion of it. I have several years of teaching experience. And, to top it off, I had AMAZING letters of rec. -- two professors who are both NAU C & I graduates; one principal; one department leader; and a fellow teacher.

What more could they want?!?

My mom said it was probably a sign that I should take some time off. But, she has to say that, because she's my mom. Who knows? Maybe she's right.

So, now I'm going to PROBABLY apply to another program. I know that most people who want to become doctors apply to more than one program, but I was just so sure that I'd be accepted to NAU. After all, it's not Harvard!

Do you know what they say happens when you assume?!?

Well, I do. You make an ass out of you and me!

So, now I feel like I have to change the title and address of my blog. But, the question remains...what should I change it to?!?!

Feel free to give me your suggestions:)

Saturday, April 4, 2009

99.9% Effective

I'm annoyed right now about something I believe to be a black and white issue. After all, there's only 0.1% of gray, and, in my opinion, that's not even worth counting! This is how it works--women who want to be pregnant will get pregnant (eventually) even without the man's consent, assuming that the woman has earned the man's trust in the bedroom. If everyone I knew who said their child was an accident/mistake/miracle (whatever you call it still suggests the pregnancy wasn't planned) really was using some type of contraceptive, they wouldn't be pregnant! They can't all be part of the 0.1%!!! It's impossible. So, here's my conclusion--women and men who don't want to have a baby at this very moment...WON'T! It's the women who "forget" to take their pill and the men who are too "caught up in the heat of the moment" who have unplanned pregnancies. DUH! Am I the only one who gets this? So, please stop the ignorance now, and save me the headache I've been dealing with from all of these people who tell me, "We didn't even mean to get pregnant. It just happened." Save it! I don't believe you. Remember: honesty is the best policy, so be honest with yourself and be honest with me. Thanks. I'm done. I think I'll get off of my soapbox now.

Friday, April 3, 2009

How to get the husband you want

So, if you couldn't tell already, I'm writing so many posts, because Chris is still @ work, and I'm avoiding my HW. Anyway, one of the things I've done today was listen to a message from TVC, about how to get the husband you want. Drum roll, please. And, the final answer...be the wife you need to be!

Here are three things you need to do as a wife to get the husband you want:

1. Sexual fulfillment

Men desire sex. Duh! And, as a wife, it is your responsibility to become one with your husband. Sex is an important part of marriage. Like fire, it is warm, beautiful, and comforting when contained in the proper place.

2. Attraction

When your husband first met you, he thought to himself, "Holy Smokes! That girl is HOT!!!" Continue to make yourself attractive for your husband. In other words, don't let yourself go, because men are visual beings. Chris always recieved trophies gorwing up for playing soccer, boy scouts, and some other activities. That was then. I am his trophy now, and it is my duty to him to keep myself looking the best that I can. One caveat--men can't exp[ect their wives to look like something out of a magazine, because we weren't created by computer imaging; we were created by God.

3. Respect and Affirmation

Men have big egos, and they need to be praised continuously. Remind your husband on a daily basis that you are proud of him; that you enjoy how he makes you feel; that his work is an integral part of your existence as a family. Tell him that you're amazed by who he is and how he makes you a better person. When you do this, he will in turn show you more affection.

So, now here comes the tough part. You have to ask yourself if you are the wife your husband deserves. When you can honestly say that you are, you'll have the husband you want!

On the road again

Chris and I were so excited to find out that Ron and Nonie had decided to buy us a newer, bigger, and better motorhome! We have been using a 20 ft. Mobile Traveler that they bought several years ago for any of the boys to use. Jim ended up getting his own motorhome a couple of years ago, and Doug was using the one we have now, until he had some personal issues to sort out. So, to make an even longer story somewhat shorter, Chris and I are getting a new RV! And, Doug is going to take back the one we've been "babysitting" for him.

Our new RV is an American and sleeps six people. I can't remember how long it is, but it's considerably longer than the Mobile. Here are a couple of pictures of it:




I like them Latin girls

About two weeks ago, I enrolled in a late-start Latin dance class at AWC. At first, I was dreading the class because it's held from 8:45-10 PM, which is normally my bedtime, but I've actually been enjoying myself. So, I wanted to share with you a little about the three styles of Latin dance I've learned thus far:

BACHATA -
Bachata is a Latin dance originating in the Dominican Republic. It is a romantic dance, as partners hold each other close and sway to the music.

MERENGUE -
The Merengue is the national dance of the Dominican Republic, and also to some extent, of Haiti, the neighbor sharing the island.

There are two popular versions of the of the origin of the Dominican national dance, the Merengue. One story alleges the dance originated with slaves who were chained together and, of necessity, were forced to drag one leg as they cut sugar to the beat of drums. The second story alleges that a great hero was wounded in the leg during one of the many revolutions in the Dominican Republic. A party of villagers welcomed him home with a victory celebration and, out of sympathy, everyone dancing felt obliged to limp and drag one foot.

SALSA -
Salsa is a dance for Salsa music created by Spanish-speaking people from the Caribbean and their immigrant communities in the US. Salsa dancing mixes African and European dance influences through the music and dance fusions that are the roots of Salsa: SonGuaguancó, Rumba, Boogaloo, Pachanga, Guaracha, Plena, and Bomba.

So far, I've enjoyed the Bachata dance the most. Merengue hurts my hip sockets after a while, and Salsa just plain confuses me, because it's opposite of the grapevine.

Saturday, January 24, 2009

differentials

As Billie Holiday reminded us half a century ago:

Them that's got shall get
Them that's not shall lose
So the Bible says,
and it still is news.

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

With a wave

Bush leaves the White House!

I wish I could've been on the mall in Washington, D.C. this morning to watch Barack Obama be sworn in as our 44th president. But, I still got chills just watching it on my lap top at school. I'm so amazed by him, and I'm looking forward to the next eight years:)

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Make My Day

One of the things on my to do list today was to schedule a videographer for our performance on 2/9, but I was apprehensive, because I don't have a lot of money in our school budget to pay for these types of services. So, David from Yuma Video called be back rather promptly, and he said that he wouldn't charge us to film our show. And, to top it off, he said that the DVDs will only cost my students &10 each! Isn't that AMAZING?!? Well, to say the least, he made my day!!!

Actually, today has been a great day so far, which is another reason I love Sundays! Chris and I woke up, ate breakfast and went on a walk. Then, Curtis came over (he's still here) and John's here, and we're grilling carne asada. It's going to be delicious. This is just what I needed before the school week starts:)

Thursday, January 8, 2009

priceless

Principles of Curriculum Construction $850.00

Advanced SEI for ELL $465.00

Secondary English AEPA $105.00

AZ Const. and Government Priceless (only because Chris works at AWC)

Monday, January 5, 2009

Each January

I look forward to choosing a new calendar for the year. Chris and I are fortunate enough not to have to go out and purchase a calendar, because we get several sent to us throughout the course of the year. In late 2008, we received calendars from National Wildlife Federation, The Nature Conservancy, Arbor Day Foundation, and El Paso Natural Gas. Of these agencies, we only donated to ADF. I've chosen to display The Nature Conservancy calendar in our office, because the photos it contains were taken by real people who just happened to win a contest. And, they're absolutely breathtaking displays of Mother Earth. So, it you're in need of a 2009 calendar, I've got three up for grabs!